What if You Could Actually Name and Rank Your Values? Now You Can.

It’s here! It’s finally here! Yes, I’m talking about The Values Bridge. And yes, this is THE digital tool I’ve been talking about on my podcast for months.

With The Values Bridge, you can now uncover the values that truly motivate you, see them ranked 1-15, find out which ones are in harmony and which ones are… in conflict, AND compare them with friends and family. It’s just KILLER, if I must say so myself. Keep reading for more.

It’s here! It’s finally here! Yes, I’m talking about The Values Bridge. And yes, this is THE digital tool I’ve been talking about on my podcast for months.

With The Values Bridge, you can now uncover the values that truly motivate you, see them ranked 1-15, find out which ones are in harmony and which ones are… in conflict, AND compare them with friends and family. It’s just KILLER, if I must say so myself. Keep reading for more.

Discover Your Values DNA

Love of The Week

“The limits of my language are the limits of my world." Yikes, that’s so true, isn’t it? A student shared this quote by Ludwig Wittgenstein at an event recently, and what can I say? It explains everything. The pain of misunderstanding that so many of us have encountered, when we haven’t been able to express what it is that truly matters to us.

Love of The Week

“The limits of my language are the limits of my world." Yikes, that’s so true, isn’t it? A student shared this quote by Ludwig Wittgenstein at an event recently, and what can I say? It explains everything. The pain of misunderstanding that so many of us have encountered, when we haven’t been able to express what it is that truly matters to us.

Which is why I LOVE – love, love, love – that there is now a solution, a language for us to be able to explain, yes, our differences, but also very much so our similarities. Without further ado, I introduce to you The Values Bridge!

The focus of my PhD (along with, really, being the focus of my life’s work), is this language of 15 core human values that we each have, to varying degrees. There are values like Scope, which is how big and exciting a life you want. There’s Eudemonia, which is how much self-care and pleasure are the organizing principles of your life. And there are more familiar ones, like Workcentrism, which is, yes, how much work (for the sake of working) drives our lives.

And now, finally, you can uncover all of your own values — core, moderate, and peripheral — and learn which ones are in conflict, in harmony, and even share and compare your results with family and friends.

Languages exist so that we can understand ourselves – and understand others. They exist so we can express our most authentic self to the world. And then, with that sharing, start the journey of living it, side by side with those around us.

I love you. This thing I love, the Values Bridge, is for you.

Hate of the Week

I am going to be bold enough to say you probably don’t know your values right now. Or you don’t know them well enough. And I hate that. Because if you want to live your purpose (which is what we aim to do over here in the Becoming Youniverse), knowing your values deeply, deeply matters.

My recent research shows that only 17% of people even know the definition of values with clarity, and only 7% can name their own with specificity. Usually, people list their values as “Family,” “Financial Security,” and then a virtue like “Honesty,” or an aspiration, like “Happiness.”

But how much, specifically, is family the organizing principle of your life? Or what does financial security look like for you, personally? Now, this is all hard data to gather about ourselves, I get it! Which is why (yes, another shameless plug incoming, #sorrynotsorry) I created The Values Bridge. So you can not only know what values are, but know your own, and know them with profound specificity. And I don’t hate that at all.

Hmm of the Week

How close are you to living your most authentic life? The life of your dreams, where you’re fully aligned with your core values? These are the questions that make me go “hmm,” as I am often talking with students, clients, and Becoming You community members who are trying to decipher these questions themselves.

What if there was a way to quickly test this, to instantly see how far away we really are from living out our authentic lives? Yes, it’s true, The Values Bridge tests this too! It takes the “hmm” guesswork right out of the equation, and presents you with an Authenticity Gap score that lays out how close — or, for some of us, how far away — we are from living our true dream of a life.

How Do My Values Fit into the Whole Becoming You Methodology?

Values are one (very important) piece of the Becoming You puzzle to finding your purpose, but there are also your aptitudes and your economically viable interests — both of which are also key.

Ahead of the book’s release next week (AH!), I’d love to send you a sneak peek of Chapter Five, along with a signed bookplate. To redeem, just register your pre-order here.

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Values are one (very important) piece of the Becoming You puzzle to finding your purpose, but there are also your aptitudes and your economically viable interests — both of which are also key.

Ahead of the book’s release next week (AH!), I’d love to send you a sneak peek of Chapter Five, along with a signed bookplate. To redeem, just register your pre-order here.

Secure Your Copy Today!

You Were Judged. You Judged Back. Now What?

It’s one of the more painful human experiences: being judged not for what we’ve done, but for what we value. This week’s podcast episode examines why those moments leave such a lasting mark — and why, so often, we end up doing the same to others. Alongside them, a provocative remedy: a way out of the cycle that strains relationships, narrows futures, and obscures purpose.

Tune in Here!